Helping people understand themselves in ways that reduce shame and make change possible
Many people come to therapy believing that something is wrong with them.
Often, they discover that their thoughts, emotions and behaviour patterns make more sense than they realised. What once helped us cope or survive may now be limiting our choices, relationships or wellbeing. Understanding these patterns does not mean excusing or condoning harmful behaviour. Rather, it can help us understand how they developed, what purpose they may once have served, and how they might be changed.
The aspects of ourselves we struggle with most are often the ones that need understanding rather than rejection.


My approach is grounded in curiosity rather than judgement. Together, we can explore the experiences, emotions and relationship patterns that may be contributing to your difficulties, helping you develop greater understanding, choice and confidence.
I aim to offer a thoughtful, warm and collaborative environment where curiosity is encouraged, difficulties can be explored openly, and understanding can lead to greater choice, confidence and meaningful change.
I believe that understanding creates choice.
Many of the ideas that influence my work are connected by a common theme: curiosity. When we become curious about our thoughts, emotions, behaviour patterns and relationships, we often begin to understand ourselves differently.

Support for a wide range of emotional, relational and life difficulties, helping people develop greater understanding of themselves and their experiences in ways that support meaningful change.

Understanding anger, emotional regulation and the experiences that may lie beneath aggressive or reactive responses, helping people develop greater choice, confidence and meaningful change.

A reflective and relational approach to supervision that balances support, challenge and professional development.

Support with theory, assignments, case studies, counselling skills, confidence and integrating learning into practice.

Counsellor, Psychotherapist, Clinical Supervisor & Counselling Tutor
I enjoy helping people make sense of their experiences, thoughts and behaviour patterns, particularly when those patterns feel confusing, frustrating or difficult to change.
If you'd like to arrange an initial conversation, have any questions, or prefer to speak by phone, I'd be happy to hear from you. You can get in touch using the contact form or call me on 07956 525587. Whether you prefer to meet in person or online, we can find an approach that works for you.
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Helping people understand themselves in ways that reduce shame and make change possible
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